Social and emotional competence

WORKING WELL WITH PEOPLE

To work well with other people, it’s important to participate in a positive and active way. We need to listen to other people and respect their ideas.

  1. How do you feel about working in pairs and groups at school? Choose the best option to make each sentence true for you.
    1. Ienjoy working with other people.
    2. I’mat listening to other people’s ideas.
    3. Iwait for other people to start the activity.
    4. I’mat making decisions with other people.
  1. Match words 1–7 to their opposites.
  • disagree
  • listen
  • negative
  • offer
  • passive
  • rude
  • together
  1. talk
  2. positive
  3. agree
  4. ask for
  1. active
  2. polite
  3. alone
  1. Complete the tips with words from exercise 2.
TIPS for working well in pairs and groups

Have a 1  attitude.

Participate in an 2  way. Suggest ideas and offer to do things. Don’t wait for other people to tell you what to do.

 for other people’s ideas and opinions.

Don't 4  all the time – listen to other people’s ideas too.

You don’t always need to agree with other people’s ideas, but don’t be rude. 5  in a polite way and give reasons for your opinions.

Remember that you aren’t working alone.
Make decisions 6 .

  1. Read the cartoon. Who isn’t working very well with other people in the group?
  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya
Lori, Max and Anya are in geography class. Their teacher asks them to make a poster about a big city in another country. They need to work in a group of three.
  1. Read the cartoon again and pick the names.

Who …

1 has a positive attitude?

  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya

2 doesn’t participate in an active way?

  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya

3 asks for other people’s ideas?

  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya

4 suggests ideas?

  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya

5 gives reasons for ideas and opinions?

  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya

6 makes decisions alone?

  • Lori
  • Max
  • Anya
  1. Look at phrases 1–5 from the cartoon. Match them with the functions a–e.
  • offering to do something
  • suggesting an idea
  • giving a reason for an opinion
  • asking for another person’s opinion
  • being polite
  1. ‘What about Los Angeles?’
  2. ‘I can look for some information online.’
  3. ‘It’s interesting because it’s very different from our city.’
  4. ‘Thanks, Lori.’
  5. ‘What do you think, Anya?’
  1. Read the tips in exercise 3 again. Answer the questions for you.
    1. What do you do well when you work with other people?
    2. What do you need to improve?